Why I Stopped Letting aI Agents Write Directly to my Database (and Built MemState)

Recently, I decided to build a classic AI agent for ordering pizza. The goal was simple: ask for the pizza type, ask for toppings, confirm the order, and save it. But I realized the architecture was broken. I needed a middle layer. A "Draft" area where the agent can mold the data like clay, make mistakes, fix them, and only commit when everything is perfect.